Shaw just sent me an email to activate my membership and I found it in Windows Live Mail which I do not use. So where has it gone and what do I need to do? Also cannot connect to my wireless from my ipad - are the problems connected?
Shaw isn't going to have anything to do with your Gmail account, your iPad, may be a Shaw issue...
As Kevin mentioned, these would be two separate issues.
The email to activate your community membership would be sent only be sent to the email address you entered when you set up your community account. If it was sent to a second email address at Live Mail, are you receiving other emails sent there too? It's possible that you have forwarding set up on your main email address.
With your wifi connection to your iPad, are you using a Shaw wifi modem or a third party router? Are other wifi devices in your home able to connect to wifi? Also, we have a great guide to connecting an iPad to wifi at How to set up email and WiFi - Apple iPad.
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