Is there a way to set up my remote access so when I download a message at home it no longer shows up?
Were you able to set this up in your email program? The settings are different in each program.
For example, here's the settings in many versions of Microsoft Outlook (from Leave e-mail messages on your e-mail server - Outlook - Office.com) -
1. On the Tools menu, click E-mail Accounts.
2. Click View or change existing e-mail accounts, and then click Next.
3. Select your ISP account, and then click Change.
4. Click More Settings.
5. Click the Advanced tab, and under Delivery, select the "leave a copy of messages on the server" check box.
Correct me if I'm wrong,
When you are at home, you want to download your messages to your computer, and then not have them show up in other places as well?
If this is what you want to do, if you set your computer's email program to remove the messages from the server, it will delete the emails from the server when it downloads them, so they will then only be showing on your computer.
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